Responsible Gambling
Poker is a game of skill mixed with variance, and even the best player at the table can have a losing month, a losing year, or worse. Every ranking, bonus breakdown and site review on sharepointassist.com is written on that basis: poker is entertainment you pay for, not a job, an investment, or a way out of financial trouble. This page explains how we think about responsible gambling, what protections you should expect from a licensed US poker site, and where to get help if things aren't feeling fun anymore.
Poker is entertainment, not income
Nothing on this site should be read as a suggestion that you can rely on poker winnings to pay bills, replace a salary, or dig out of debt. Rake, variance, and the skill of your opponents all work against consistent profit, and even long-term winning players go through extended downswings. If you're playing with money you can't afford to lose, or chasing a previous loss with a bigger deposit, that's a sign to stop for the day, not to raise the stakes.
Who should be playing
Real money poker is for adults only. Most regulated US states set the minimum age at 21, though a small number allow 18 for certain forms of gambling — check the specific rule in your state before you sign up anywhere. Licensed sites verify age and identity during account registration and before any withdrawal, and none of the operators we cover should ever be accessed by anyone under their state's legal minimum. This site does not target, and is not intended for, anyone under 21.
What licensed operators are required to offer
Online poker in the US is regulated state by state — there's no single federal license, so the protections available to you depend partly on where you're located and which site you're using. That said, operators taking real money players in regulated states are generally expected to provide a baseline set of player-protection tools. These typically include:
- Deposit limits — daily, weekly or monthly caps you set yourself, which the operator cannot override without a cooling-off period
- Time-out and cool-off periods — short breaks from your account, from 24 hours up to several weeks
- Self-exclusion — a longer-term or permanent block, often tied to a statewide self-exclusion register rather than a single site
- Reality checks — pop-up reminders of session length and, on some clients, net win/loss
- Account activity statements — a record of deposits, withdrawals and time played, so you can review your own patterns
If a state runs its own self-exclusion program, it applies across every licensed operator in that state, not just one brand — enrolling through one site should stop you from simply opening an account elsewhere in the same state. We never suggest ways around these programs, and any strategy for "switching sites" discussed elsewhere on this site assumes you are not self-excluded and are playing entirely within your own limits.
Signs it's time to step back
There's no single test for problem gambling, but common warning signs include:
- Playing higher stakes than you'd normally choose to try to recover a loss
- Spending more time or money on poker than you planned before you sat down
- Borrowing money, using bill money, or lying to family about play or losses
- Feeling anxious, irritable or preoccupied with poker between sessions
- Ignoring other responsibilities — work, sleep, relationships — because of play
If any of that sounds familiar, it's worth pausing and using the tools above, or speaking to a confidential support service.
Where to get help
If poker, or gambling more broadly, is causing you or someone close to you harm, free and confidential support is available around the clock:
- 1-800-GAMBLER — the national problem gambling helpline, available by phone and text in most US states
- Many states also run their own gambling helpline or self-exclusion program through the state gaming or lottery commission — check your state regulator's site for local resources
These services are free, confidential, and not run by any operator we review — reaching out doesn't affect your account with any poker site.
How this shapes what we write
Our reviews and comparisons, including our main ranking of the best real money poker sites, are built around game variety, traffic, security and value — never around encouraging anyone to deposit more than they intend to, or to see poker as a solution to money problems. Where we cover a welcome bonus or deposit match, we set out the wagering requirements, time limits and eligibility terms next to the offer itself, because understating those terms would work against exactly the kind of informed, in-control play this page is about. Some pages on this site carry affiliate links, meaning Best Poker Sites may earn a commission if you sign up through them; that relationship never determines how a site is ranked or reviewed.
A quick checklist before you deposit
- Only deposit money you could comfortably afford to lose in full
- Set a deposit or loss limit before you start playing, not after a bad session
- Read the bonus terms — wagering requirements and expiry dates included — before you claim anything
- Take regular breaks, especially during long tournament or multi-tabling sessions
- If you're not sure whether your play is still fun, that's usually the answer
For questions about a specific listing or how we handle a review, our contact page and about us page explain how to reach us and how the site is run. This page will be reviewed periodically to keep the guidance and helpline details current.